BOSSY MASSAGE

It will be a dance between play, consent, clear communication, and conscious touch.

What happens when we combine clear instructions, deliberate touch, and defined roles?
 

In this workshop, we will explore a dynamic based on the Wheel of Consent
.It will be a laboratory that will allow us to align and accept our own desires and have someone at our service to manifest them. We will have absolute permission to be as bossy as we please (with a certain amount of gentleness ;) and, on the other hand, the opportunity to surrender to unconditional service. By becoming a tool for manifesting the other's satisfaction, we will be able to experience the pleasure of "doing what I'm told" without having to improvise or be creative. It will also be a precious opportunity to practice: "not taking anything personally." Within a framework of negotiated, explicit, and mutual consent
.It will not be about performing, but rather about opening ourselves to expand our sensitivity, empathy, and connection with our own bodies. It will be about surrendering ourselves to interact with respect and presence. To honor our boundaries and those of others. To practice and refine clear communication and explore the magic of conscious touch

We will begin with a little theory about consent and an introduction to possible massage techniques and examples. We will play some games related to consent, and gradually we will surrender to the delight of massage. We will conclude with a time for sharing reflections and takeaways.

All curious and respectful beings are welcome.
Massages can be done on clothing or skin, according to your preference. Although this is a sex-positive space, there will be no room for genital contact or expectations of romantic/sexual connection. If you don't feel comfortable giving or receiving a massage with someone of your same gender, this workshop is not for you.

Practicalities: Wear comfortable clothing, bring a towel or large cloth, massage oil of your choice (optional), and an extra pair of socks.

At the end of this journey, you may discover that the true pleasure wasn't in being touched, but in being heard. Not in receiving just any hand, but one that respects your "here," “this way” and “that far”. This workshop is an invitation to rewrite, together, the grammar of human contact. Where consent is not a protocol, but a language of revolutionary love.

About Felicitas Truchero: 
Felicitas has always been interested in holistic therapies and how to bring them in a practical way to everyday life. In her workshops she integrates her experience as an Inbound Yoga instructor, LomiLomi masseuse and Shiatsu-Shibari practioneer.