DARE TO WANT

Daring to want isn't about having a ready-made answer. It's about having the nerve to sit with the question and the courage to let it reshape you.

This workshop is for the bold and the curious—those who sense their desire is more layered, wilder, and more alive than their current map can capture. This isn't a space for passive learning or seeking validation. It is a space for active investigation: rolling up your sleeves and getting your hands dirty with the raw material of your own wanting. Navigating your own landscapes of shines and shame into the unknown.

This is a living laboratory—a two-day immersive investigation into the question itself. We are not here to perform, to prove we are "kinky enough," or to retrieve a pre-existing answer. We are here to build the answer together, thread by thread, through somatic perception and creative interaction. Interactions are not necessarily sexual, but they are undeniably intimate, exploratory, and deeply playful.

We begin not with plans, but with presence. Dropping out of our heads and into the raw data of sensation, we learn to track the body's subtle signals, without needing to interpret them immediately. Through different exercises and creative encounters, we will treat each other as mirrors and co-conspirators in a shared investigation. We sit with the question: "What do I actually want?"—not the answer we should give, but the one that has not yet found its voice.

Day One: The Archaeology of the Unknown

We will build a container of radical permission and active consent to give space for intuition. Here, we do not plan scenes; we follow threads. We allow desires to emerge organically, naming them only when they are ready. We explore the qualities we ache to transmit and receive—power, surrender, tenderness, chaos, stillness—and let them begin to take shape. We ask, we listen, we refine. And we do it all without the pressure to "get it right."

Day Two: Giving Form to Emergence

With threads woven into visions, we move into creative action. First, with a certain structure, giving our discoveries a safe format to land. Then, we release into a freer, more fluid playground—where the visions that have emerged are tested, embodied, and brought to life through spontaneous, co-created interactions. The research becomes real. The unknown becomes known—not because we forced it, but because we dared to follow it.

Who is this for?

I wish to invite participants who have attended at least a couple of workshops with active consent practices.
Still, your level of experience matters less than your mindset. I'm inviting you with a beginner's mind: curious, open, and willing to sit in the discomfort of not-knowing. If you're unsure whether you're "advanced enough," you probably are.

The Dare

This is your invitation to stop performing certainty and start investigating your own edges. In my experience, the most transformative moments come not from having the right answer, but from having the courage to follow the questions.

To stop waiting for clarity and start playing with the unknown. By daring to ask—without censorship, without shame—you might just discover what you actually need.

This space is held with trauma-aware facilitation and a radical respect for autonomy. Every interaction is an invitation, never an expectation. 

Dare to want. Even if you don't know what that means yet.

Practical Details

What to bring: Comfortable clothes—casual, sexy, or anything in between. An extra outfit for Sunday's free-flow is a good idea. And feel free to bring any toys or props that you love, or that you're curious to explore.

Schedule:

Saturday

12:00 – 17:00 (with a lunch break in between)

Sunday

15:00 – 18:00 | Break 18:00 – 19:00 | Free-flow play: 19:00 – 21:00

Felicitas has always been interested in holistic and transformative therapies and how to transfer them in a practical way to everyday life. In their workshops they integrate the playfulness of Kink with their background in bodywork, sustainable design and diverse practices of meditation. They enjoy to offer a space for creative and conscious play where they invite an state of presence, freedom, clear communication and empathy.